TESTIMONIALS
Real women, Lasting change.
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A collection of kind words, from the women who have trusted me as their coach. Every story here is real, and every one is the reason I do this work.Â
COACHING
What women say about working with Elly
"Saying yes to She Regulated is the best investment I've ever made in myself."
Tanya D
She Regulated
"I feel joy in life again, connection to myself stronger than ever before, and more peace throughout my life."
Andrea D
She Regulated
"Not just because the program is worth it, because you are. The Emotional Change Technique was so powerful."
Amelia T
She Regulated
"I committed to one-on-one coaching, and it became the most liberating experience of my life."
Liv Z
1:1 Coaching
"The work hasn't just changed how I think, it has changed how I live."
Mel P
1:1 Coaching
"My coaching took me from feeling sorry for myself, to someone who now loves herself and genuinely loves life!"
Georgia H
1:1 Coaching
"8 zoom calls later and I am back where I've always wanted to be. Lighter, happier, fulfilled, loved, loving."
Kylie C
1:1 Coaching
I believe everyone has the right to feel safe, connected, valued, and loved. True healing isn't about surface-level solutions; it's about doing the deep, transformational work that reconnects you to your authentic self.
— Elly
WOMEN'S RETREATS
What women say about retreats with Elly
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"Whatever Elly put in the itinerary for us undoubtedly impacted my future. There were moments of vulnerability, deep reflection, and complete united sisterhood — something I never intended to get out of my time at the retreat."
MADDISON N
SRI LANKA, 2025
"The retreat honestly changed my life. A feeling of safety, comfort, healing and a true feeling of knowing what it is to be right on time and right where you are meant to be."
CLAIRE M
SRI LANKA, 2025
"I got exactly what I needed and so much more. Everything I learnt about myself, the incredible workshops, and the amazing women around me — I will cherish, always. It has changed my life forever, in the best way possible."
VICKY H
SRI LANKA, 2025
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Tanya D
Saying yes to She Regulated is the best investment I've ever made in myself. Elly is a gift, honestly. From the very first call I knew I was in the right place at the right time. I felt heard and understood.
I'd been in fight or flight for so long and wanted to be at peace with things I couldn't change and reduce my constant state of anxiety. I got more than I could have ever expected. The women inspired me and I felt less alone and more supported every week.
After working through the program, my husband says I am calmer and more present. I now trust myself and my intuition and feel stronger mentally. Breathwork is not "woo woo", it's a tool I can pull to help me regulate and stay calm, and I love it. Elly, what you have created to bring women together is what you are meant to do. You won't regret it.
Andrea D
The She Regulated program hit me while I was doom scrolling one day and Elly spoke to me directly through her message. I was exhausted, spiralling with my thoughts, surviving life not living life. This program, and Elly, was everything I needed and more.
The beautiful safe space that Elly is able to create and hold allows for complete vulnerability, which allows for significant growth. In comparison to when I began, I feel joy in life again, connection to myself stronger than ever before, and more peace throughout my life. I've extended much of the learning to my teenage daughter too.
Honestly, I would tell all of my girlfriends to do this course, specifically the ones who always say they have no time for themselves and need a refreshed toolkit to work through.
Amelia T
If you feel your emotions are controlling you and you're being led towards She Regulated with Elly, my advice would be to absolutely do it. The content was so easy to understand, with clearly explained concepts we could build on week by week, helping us identify the root causes of dysregulation.
Understanding the 'Cause & Effect' and 'Perception is Projection' principles will absolutely change your world, guaranteed. The Emotional Change Technique was so powerful. I had real time transformations with how feelings of fear, rejection and guilt no longer had the deep emotional effect on me they had in the past.
The power of group healing is unmatched. Now I have new tools, frameworks and understandings to rebuild healthy foundations. So if you're considering working with Elly, you should. Not just because the program is worth it, because you are.
Liv Z
Before I began working with Elly, I was passively existing in a life that didn't feel like my own. From the outside everything looked fine, but internally I felt disconnected and complacent. My journey began with Elly's group program, then I committed to one-on-one coaching, and it became the most liberating experience of my life.
Through Elly's guidance and the Emotional Change Technique, I experienced the deepest transformation I have ever known. The change was immediate. It was as though I had finally come home to myself. As my self-worth grew, so did my courage, and I began making bold, life-changing decisions aligned with who I really am.
Today I am living more consciously, more courageously, and more authentically than I ever thought possible. If you're questioning whether you're ready, I gently invite you to ask a different question: what if you're more ready than you realise?
Mel P
Before working with Elly I had achieved many of the things I thought would make me feel fulfilled, but something was missing. I was moving through life on autopilot, ticking boxes but not truly living. When the opportunity to work with Elly came along, something inside me said it was time to invest in myself.
The biggest shift has been a much deeper understanding of myself and how I show up in the world. I reconnected with parts of myself I had long forgotten. One unexpected gift was rediscovering my creativity, giving myself permission to paint simply because I enjoy it. The work hasn't just changed how I think, it has changed how I live.
The women's retreat in Sri Lanka was one of the most profound experiences of my life. Being surrounded by open-hearted women created a space where I felt safe enough to be truly seen. Working with Elly has been one of the most valuable investments I've ever made in myself.
Sam S
My time with Elly has been such a gift to myself, my family and our future. I was living a cycle of nightmares, not seeing my reality and blaming everything I was unhappy with on others. The journey Elly took me on was confronting and uncomfortable, but loving and kind all at the same time.
With Elly's unique way of creating a safe and loving space, whilst giving me a good solid shove when I was being stubborn, she really opened my eyes. I walked away with so much more than I could've ever imagined, empowered with support, skills and knowledge I still use daily.
A big thank you to you, Elly. You saved me.
Georgia H
I absolutely loved working with Elly. Having lost myself in motherhood with three young kids, I was feeling stuck and flat, like something was missing. Working with Elly to clear my emotional blocks, learn more about myself and my relationship with my husband, and engage in real self-love experiences, has completely changed my life.
I've learned that through genuine self-care and love I can show up with more energy, patience and time for those around me and not feel constantly drained. I was originally worried about the investment, but it's been absolutely worth it to get my life back on track.
My one-on-one coaching has taken me from a negative person who was feeling sorry for herself, to someone who now loves herself, exudes confidence and genuinely loves life. I really couldn't recommend working with Elly more.
Kylie C
I had a lot of self doubt about investing in this coaching program. I'd followed Elly for years and thought, gosh, I want what she's having. I had feelings that I wasn't worthy enough to work with Elly, that my issues weren't as big as everyone else's. But we are absolutely worthy of investing in ourselves.
I cannot tell you who the girl was who began that first lesson with Elly. She had a great job, family and friends and yet she felt sad, alone, lost and defeated. 8 zoom calls later and I am back where I've always wanted to be. Lighter, happier, fulfilled, loved, loving, and it is incredible.
If this is something you've dreamt of doing, this is your sign. Invest in yourself, because you are absolutely worth it.
Maddison N — Sri Lanka
Retreats have always intrigued me, but I'd never taken the leap, especially across the world solo. After weeks of contemplating, I booked Elly's Sri Lanka retreat. At this time in my life I was a very lost, shell of a human going through the unimaginable.
Over the next week, transformation took place. There were times of uncomfortable vulnerability, deep inner reflection, and moments of complete united sisterhood, something I never intended to get out of my time there. This kind of stuff is where the magic happens. It's where you release, where you grow, where you feel lighter and where you change.
I received something different to what I thought I was signing up for, and that's the gold in all of this. My time at the retreat changed me as a woman. If you're thinking about doing this, book it. You will not regret it. The best investment you can ever make is in yourself, and I'm so glad I started with this.
Claire M — Sri Lanka
The retreat honestly changed my life. I know it's a big statement, but I went in not really knowing a lot about it. I just woke up one morning, saw it online and thought, I'm going to do that.
It was a sisterhood, a truly grounding experience that allowed me to see myself through a different lens. The uncomfortable moments allowed me to propel forward and open up in ways I didn't think were possible in such a safe space. A feeling of safety, comfort, healing and knowing what it is to be right on time and right where you are meant to be.
I'm truly forever grateful for it. Six months later, writing this with a big smile, I still think about it and can still feel that feeling.
Vicky H — Sri Lanka
I cannot speak highly enough of the retreat in Sri Lanka with Elly. I was searching for guidance, connection and healing. Something needed to change, and Elly was hosting a women's retreat offering exactly this, so I thought, why not? I got exactly what I needed and so much more.
I didn't know anyone when I arrived, but the amazing sisterhood that was created made me feel so comfortable to be completely myself. The incredible workshops, and the amazing women around me, I will cherish always.
It has changed my life forever, in the best way possible. If you have ever thought about doing a retreat, all I can say is you will not regret it. It is a once in a lifetime opportunity, and if you have the chance, do it. You have everything to gain.